Take Care :)

Some times we are so much associated to the technical jargon that we start coining up names for all the possible vocabulary under usage. What did u understand when u first read "TC" .. nothing right??? well there are loads of meanings and there are tons of ways of interpreting them.. For me .. it means TAKE CARE..

My friend once happened to ask me .. what "Take care .. ??" U think people are dumb enough to not do that? Why do u use it ? I actually pondered when i heard that statement.. I thought that was rude in the first instance.. but later on i realized that indeed it made a whole lot of sense ;-)!!!

U genuinely want people to take care of themselves.. but how often does that work out? People are highly careless .. and u unnecessarily keep pestering them for no reason... Why should u feel bad about it? U have done your duty of telling them.. now its purely their call.. Why do you need to interrupt for no reason? You may thin like this every time people hurt you in their own sweet ways.. sometimes merely through words.. sometimes through deeds ... and if u r really among the lucky few.. they will hurt u by being silent.. ( the most difficult thing to refute..) .. all in all.. you get to taste the consequence of CARING ....

Lets try to work the other way.. NOT CARING ..
1. You need not waste energy telling anyone..
2. You need not spend sleepless nights trying to think something for someone.
3. You can have harmony by just being carefree..
4. You can just sit back and enjoy.. good for you.. what else do u want from life...

Now that there are so many benefits .. why can't you just shut up and say I CARE A DAMN ABOUT ANYBODY ... so easy .. an easy walk through of LIFE..
But can we really be or rather even pretend to be 5% of that ????

Going by the laws of Indian culture + a pinch of mankind we can't certainly follow that attitude. How much ever we rebel or yell or shout or scream or.... think and try to forget WE would still have that CARING bug installed in us.. Thanks to all the humanity factors governing us , we will never be cent percent successful in carrying that feeling of negligence.. Embarrassing situations, people , factors , scenarios , time .... and a whole lot of things will keep pushing you to forcibly neglect them. But somewhere deep inside we can't be as stubborn as rocks. We will go back to these same set of things/people and keep getting hurt. Well.. some of you may be really lucky to make them realize what they mean to you and that you are obviously not a fool to keep getting hurt day in .. day out !

But for most of you it might not be the case.. All i can say for this set of people is .. Keep Caring .. but do not take things to heart if you know what kind of people / scenarios exist around u. Do not feel bad but somewhere always make an effort to make them realize that YOU CARE and that YOU WILL NO MATTER WHATEVER HAPPENS!!

I am sure some day things will work in your favour.. After all GOD does not play dice ALWAYS !

LIFE ... MIND it yourself !!!

Life offers a varied amount of things at different times . It asks you countless questions which makes you ponder over the brief span of time that you generally tend to answer. What are these questions made of ? Are they something that influence you to the core or do they just swift by your mind and keep you baffled all through your life? How do you explain certain things and how do you justify ? Well.. Loads of things and one small being.. Ever imagined what Life could be if we knew its source code ;-) ???

Someone just passes by and that one killing look is enough to enlighten your day while a frown does exactly the reverse. Given both the situations , we often tend to think no matter how long .. but we do.. a minute or sometimes LIFETIME !! If you are a passionate about your relationships , you tend to keep thinking day in day out.. If you are a mere professional and regardless of the work taking toll over you or not , you still somewhere down the line keep imagining things pertaining to work. Sometime PEOPLE factor invokes a whole lot of thinking process. Politics at work or personal life gives you sleepless nights . Your relationship matters and so does the involvement in it. If you give yourself completely to something / someone .. you tend to get hurt and think a lot on petty issues while someone who is just a normal perceive in this case remains unaffected.

Whatever be the reason... Whatever be the issue .. what matters is how we take things and how much do we actually let it control our mind. Remember YOU have the power to rule over your mind but if You let the mind do the controlling for you ... You give your life a chance to be intruded by a Powerless yet A POWER OF ATTORNEY filled MIND ;-)!!!

Choice is yours.... TIME does not wait for anyone and LIFE ALWAYS does not give you a second chance... Make the best of both and lead your LIFE the way you want to !!!

EXPECTING the UNEXPECTED!!!

Why am I doing this ? What makes me do this ?
Why do I plan things for people ? Why do I get hurt all the time ? Why is it that only certain set of things are meant only for a certain set of people ? Why is it that I always have to compromise on my level ? Why can't people take things in the right spirit ? Why do I have be victimised always ?
WHY ... WHY ... WHY ??????????????????????????????????????
Countless questions provoking countless thoughts.... Each one rising out of a new experience .. A new dimension of the SO CALLED LIFE.
People try and analyse each of them so that they can settle out things and make them fall in place but this so called "MAJBURI" of them never allows them to do so.. The recipe for the perfect SPICE of a disturbed MIND is :

1 litre of Head mounting Problems
3 cups of Tension
4 instances of people
A pinch of Nerve breaking thought
There you are .. A perfect Disturbed Mind is ready for you..

Garnish it with whole lot of frustration and Tears and you get to taste a perfect messy one :-)!

Sounds Aggressive.. Frustrated ... and HOT right???? That's when you have to deal with the practical things and people around you. You might be a saintly figure but somewhere everyone looses it.. Exceptions however are always there to either prove you wrong or pretend that they are correct :-) !! HUH !!!

Why is it that whole lot of expectations are set only to a certain set of people ? Why Aren't they human beings ?Can't they ever expect somethings.. at least from the near and dear ones?
Definitely they can.. and they should... After all they have always been on the giving side.. Why not let them taste the Receiving end as well ? Try it and see .. it works wonders!

Expectations to be with someone.. to spend some time... to talk about all that you have have always thought about..to dream together.. to learn and share.. to give some time .. to feel special .. to ................ and the series of to's will continue ... but does it really mean to that someone for whom you are dying for no reason...

DEPENDS ... is the magical word.... he he .. can't help laughing on it..
Loads of petty things are in store .....

Watch out this space... There's more to it ...............

ADDictION!

They say never be ADDICTED...
It kills... What do you do when you are habituated to certain things or people in life.. Several people cross your life with several experiences to leave those trivial but significant memories. Saying FORGET SOMETHING is relatively EASY but FORGET SOMEONE is difficult. When you are that socialite trying to balance every little parameter you tend to lose out on many things or people. Let me narrate some of those instances where you can typically relate to :
1. You try to pacify your BOSS who accidentally happens to be a HITLER and your very own friend is pissed off by his/her behaviour. You understand their positions and give due respect to each of them. But your well being to both appears to be diplomacy for BOTH!

2. You try to balance your daily chores at home and work and all you get after hours of efforts on either sides is " You could have done a better job."

3. Relationships try to deceive you in all possible paths . You want to befriend some personality who is really respectable but your friend/s being over possessive taunt/s you and leave/s you with A HEAVY GUILT heart.

4. You wait for your friend days together on the chat and all you get is a couple of SORRYs . But if you were to do the same you are nonreciprocating about your friend's existence.

5. You wanna go to that dance class very badly because you have a liking to SALSA whereas your friend tries to emotionally blackmail you that HE can't accompany you and you obviously being a good gal won't indulge for partner look outs.

6. You put in that extra edge every time you think you can but appreciation is never on your cards .. leave alone ACKNOWLEDGEMENT!!!

7. You try to cook up 10000000 excuses to your boss and finally when you plan for your friends all you get is SORRY .. can't come ... too much of work!!

8. You being in that frustrated or emotional mood want to vent off that feeling but your friend/s say WHY ME ??? But when they are undergoing the same thing you are EXPECTED to be supportive and caring.

9. You try to make your friend's day by talking all the good things about him/her and all you hear is CAN'T YOU UNDERSTAND.. IT IRRITATES!

10. This one is the best ... At job you try to point out some severe bugs and all you attract is a couple of dissatisfaction of some people , anger , ego hassles and whole lot of grudges!!

Most of us am sure would have undergone at least one of these things.. or lemme assume the WORST CASE SCENARIO ( technical jargon.. can't help buddy.. Comes BY DEFAULT!!) ALL OF THEM. Its difficult to cope up with things rising on our shoulders both at work place and in your personal lives. What happens when tensions crop up or when pressures force things to bend in all possible directions ? The answer to these set of questions lies within us.

Have you ever thought what life would have been had you not given too much of a thought on life's petty issues. If someone has to be angry over some reason and the anger is meant t be meted out on you , why don't you rebel positively so that the person understands that you are not a showpiece where anyone can come anytime and just pour the negatives.. you are not meant to be one. Hence Try and understand that your existence surely matters a lot to NOT just others but to yourself as well. You need not think or act according to others always .. DO so but define your limits else people will never refrain from taking undue advantage. More importantly DO IT FOR PEOPLE WHO DESERVE YOU not for every TOM DICK AND HARRY!

Addiction is extremely encouraging at times but equally deteoriative when things go out of control. Learn to measure the intensity of how much to give . Act practically. You are not that SAINT who can just take things in and out and still expect nothing out of people. Do it for things that your think are going to make sense. Do it for people who make sense as well else your efforts no matter to what extent they might be are finally transformed into airs of insensibility.
Be non judgmental for certain things but restrict yourself SOMEWHERE . Your giving makes a little sense for others although it ACTUALLY means a LOT.

Get addicted to life's best things that do not harm you in any way . Live Life for others but for them whose existence brings the best out of your addiction.
Cheers !

Love.. Nothing Else Rules LiFe..............

 

Wanting You.

Things don’t appear as they seem...
For everything is just not a dream…………..

I wonder what and why I do...
Yeah, certainly I wish for you….

You ought to know you are my life...
I must be crazy thinking “I am your wife” ……..

You mould my mind , my heart and soul ..
I want you to play that important role……………

Desires and wishes all filled for you...
For least I can is only LOVE YOU ………..

I crave for you from the depth of my heart...
Have I hit the arrow on the dart??????????????????????

I don’t know why I keep missing you...
For all things you say or do……………

It’s never been so difficult for me…
For things are obvious… can’t u see??????????????????

Dreaming.

Lost Again am I in this dream world,
Nothing to hear or say a word..

Beauty filled in large arrays,
Cooling breeze just comes and sways..

Running amidst the lush green fields,
Infinite happiness is all it yields..

Dancing and singing day by day,
My mind is simply wandering away..

No iota of worries exists around,
My life seems free, totally unbound..

I fear to open my eyes now,
For the sights I see are just WOW !

I don’t want this routine life again,
Consisting of worries and pains..

Oh God ! How I wish this to be real,
Why don’t you and I just make a deal ???

Loving My Love.

There was no spark or clue nearby,
I wonder when it happened and why…

All I could feel was something special,
So many things to tell, yet none in a nutshell!

I always just spoke to him,
Point to point and fairly trim..

So many things just came and went,
A message filled with LOVE was sent…

I had no idea for this happening,
But I constantly felt him in my mind running!

He neither kissed nor said a word,
But Spoke a lot through his eyes, I heard …………………

Now I sense an aura of happiness around,
Filled with love and tenderness bound…

Am I falling for him by any means?
They say, now-a-days my face just sheens !

My mind starts imagining beautiful things,
Floral carpets and wedding rings…

I have neither hints nor even a cue………….
Would he say “ME TOO” when I say “I LOVE YOU”??????????????????????????